KarMel Scholarship 2008

 

Personal Story

“Barbie”

By Loretta Rock

 

 

Desciption of Submission: “Meeting a tranvestite named Barbie” - Loretta

 

            I was working as an exotic dancer in a small strip club where most of your customers are regulars. This night was no different than any other when in walked this six foot blonde in a mini skirt and heels.

            I had just come down off the stage and went behind the bar.  My boyfriend was sitting at the bar and this blonde had taken the seat beside him.  When I got a closer look I realized that this woman was a man.  He had on the full make up and a long blonde wig.  He stuck his hand out to me and said, “Hi, my name is Barbie”, I shook his hand and introduced myself. I then introduced him to my boyfriend. My boyfriend Ziggy is like me and doesn’t judge people. We had a long conversation with Barbie and the three of us had a few laughs.

            While we were in our own conversation I was listening to the other conversations around us.  Everyone in the place was making fun of Barbie.  They were calling him names and laughing about him.  This infuriated me but I just kept my up with my conversation with Barbie and tried not to let him know what was going on around us.

            Before he left he shook my and Ziggy’s hands and thanked us for being nice to him.  I asked him why he was thanking us. He said most people won’t talk to him and treat him like he has a disease.  I told him that Zig and I are not like everyone else and it was a pleasure meeting and talking with him.

            I never saw Barbie again but my boyfriend and I mention him once in awhile and wonder where he is and what he is doing. Inside Barbie was a good hearted person and quite funny to but, most people will never get to know that about him because all they see is a guy dressed in woman’s clothing.

 

 

 

 

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